Overweight people need love too! Don't hate them for their weight

[Carol]

Everyone likes to be loved and not hated, especially due to their appearance. Don't you think that overweight people also do realize that being fat is unhealthy? They also know that they look unattractive and can't enjoy life as others. They know that they might be a source of disturbance for others for example when they take two seats in a bus etc. They know that being fat is considered awkward in the society and people give fat people a disgusting look. When fat people know all these things why don't they lose weight? Why they don't focus on their physique and adopt ways to maintain it? Definitely there must be a reason otherwise how could one just let a thing be which causes so many problems?

We, as a part of society must think why fat people can't be as slim, smart and muscular as we are. Are they not willing to? Are they finding excuses for their non-serious behavior towards losing weight or their non-judgmental lifestyle? Of course not! Who doesn't want to be smart, healthy and attractive? Who wants to carry so massive fat over itself all the time? Of course no one! Then the society must also understand that there must be something serious going on why fat people are not taking action.

Nothing is impossible in this world and this applies to fat people as well; if they try to lose weight they definitely can. What they lack is the self-confidence and commitment, the spark which says ‘you can do it'. And when they are so depressed with their over-weighted physique and they also have to face the dishonorable behavior of others, they feel quite de-motivated and sometimes they start feeling that they can't do it at all. So this is a sort of negative contribution on your part as well. Therefore if you belong to a healthy group of the society it's your responsibility to accommodate unhealthily fat people and give them the respect they deserve.

You should always try to maintain the thin line of respect and courtesy. If you can't do any good you must not also show your ghastly behavior towards fat people. Just consider yourself to be a part of that fat group; what will you do when people throw a disgusting look on you. How bad and insulting you feel? So pay thanks to god that you are healthy and also accommodate the "fatties", they are also the part of our society!

Always remember that love and encouragement can change one's life. You never know how important your one encouragement sentence could be. There is always a possibility that while talking to a fat person you might say a motivational sentence which is life-altering for him and will bring his life back to the healthy tracks. So always keep in mind everyone deserves love and respect, you just can't cut off someone from this list just because he's fat. Don't hate fat people for their fatness, love them, respect them and show love towards them. You never know your behavior may revolutionize someone's life.