Obese Women are Loved Too

[Linda]

For many women, they are seeking love. They want to start a family. They want to have the life that Cinderella lead. Many obese women think that just because they are obese, that there isn't a man out there who wants to love them.

Due to this misconception, many women try dieting and this is great. However, they are dieting for all the wrong reasons. When they find that they have lost weight and they haven't found a guy they go right back to eating large amounts. They also tend to diet in all the wrong ways. They power diet as we like to call it. This is where they diet so hard that they actually hurt their body. What happens is that they often shock their body because they starve their body. All of this happens just for the pure thought that women who are obese won't find love.

This is a huge lie ladies. You can find love. There are many men out there who believe the old saying. They believe it's not how you look, but about what your heart says. Yes, they do exist. We know that they might be hard to find at times, but you don't' have to starve yourself to death to find a date. Take our word for it.

The next thing is that there are also men who love women who have a little meat on their bones. There are classified ads out there that you can read in your Sunday newspaper saying they want a woman who looks like this. There is hope for you yet ladies.

Many women do not stop to look in the mirror to see how great they look. They hear the words that many tell them. Many of their close friends will actually tell them that they weigh too much. If they just go on a diet they will snag the guy. This isn't always true. If a guy doesn't' like you it's normally not for how you look. Yes, there are a few shallow men out there, but it's normally a combination of reasons than just that. Mark our word for it.

Some men don't like dating obese women because of the fact that they are insecure. They don't like the way they look. Men have said that the obese women that they have dated have always downed themselves. They were always hard on themselves. They never had the self esteem that they should have. Many men cannot deal with that. Therefore, they just walk away. Some men actually help women feel good or try to feel good about them, but that never seems to work. When this is the case, the men just walk away. That is when they tell the women we should just be friends.

So, ladies, if you have a little love on your bones, then don't feel bad. There is a man out there waiting for you. He will love you the way you are. Don't give up hope. When you give up hope you give up any chance you have of that life ever after. So, go tell yourself that you look good and really mean it this time!