Obese Women and the need for Sex

[Carol]

Everyone thinks they know everything about obese women. They think they know what turns them on. They think they know how they are feeling. They even think they know how obese women are treated. However there are still misconceptions that people have all the time about obese women.

One of those misconceptions is the sex life and obese women. Many think that just because some women are overweight, they don't have a desire to have sex or that they don't get that much sex. Well, some researchers wanted to show them wrong and did a study. So, what do the studies suggest? They say that obese women actually have more sex than the average weighted person.

In 2002 this study was conducted. They took seven thousand women to help with this study. Now, that's a lot of women. They then gave them a survey. Their hope was to see a pattern between the body mass index and three things. They wanted to see at what age most obese women started having intercourse, the number of times they had sex, and with how many partners.

What they have said to be true is that even those doctors and specialists that you go to when they ask you if you have had sexual intercourse as you should have some exams done don't take you as seriously when you are overweight. The researchers suggest that some think that there is this theory that if you are overweight, you aren't having all that much luck in the bed. They have said that this isn't true. They say, that above all, obese women are getting even luckier than those skinny women out there. Now, what does that suggest?

Why is this so? Many wonder this. Is there something in the chemical make up? Maybe not the chemical make up, but while most think of women being self conscious about their bodies when they are obese, they do come to grips that men just love the curves and the hips. There are a ton of saying that support this as men say that there is more lovin to be done or more cushion for the pushin. As sexist as that is, that's how some men feel.

There was one other thing that these researchers noted. That while many were probably totally truthful about their sex life, there is some who might have exaggerated. Men do it too. But for the most part, they stand behind what the study shows them. If you have the hips and the wide structure, you can strut your stuff and a whole bunch more and you will have as much success in the bed as any of the other women out there. Maybe that will help some of you women out there with getting some action that is much deserved.

So, before you go making assumptions, think about who you are hurting. Many women dog themselves because they are overweight and they feel that no man will want to have sex with her. This is never true and now the study can prove that to you. A justified answer to a justified question that has been taken out of context.